I've always cared way more about elegance than sexiness or, certainly, than looking young. And while I don't think I've achieved it yet, I'm trying.
I go for simplicity with humor and hope it takes me down the road to elegance (well, unless I'm going for TooMuchEnough but it's one or the other).
Today I wore a Jil Sander navy sheath with a yellow sweater. Fluevog gold brogues, a '60s gold watch, and vintage gold Dior sunglasses.